The title of my homily is, “Six minutes from Sodom to Heaven”:
Some big topics will be dealt with briefly: buckle your seatbelts!
Clearly, I could just avoid the elephant in the first reading.
You and I really need 45 minutes, but I’m only taking six.
So, I will greatly summarize; I can’t say all that is needed.
I’m going to make reference to some delicate topics in a general way.
You may have questions.
You may wonder how these things apply to you, or someone you know.
Please don’t hesitate to call or email me.
So, some bullet-points:
- The Church’s teaching on what is right and wrong in matters of chastity,
including what is appropriate between two men or two women,
has not changed.
- This teaching comes from Divine Revelation, both Old and New Testament.
- What we believe is informed by how God designed human beings,
male and female, helping us know what is right or wrong.
- Notice: I am talking about chastity in general, which applies to everyone.
- Despite the slogans we hear,
“love” means different things in different contexts:
Parents and children; friends; siblings; and mom and dad.
- The specific form of intimacy I’m referring to belongs only in marriage,
Between male and female, and must always be open to the gift of life.
- Some will say, this is burdensome. But everyone, without exception,
faces daily challenges cooperating with God’s Plan.
- If your kids ask, “what is chastity,” here’s an answer:
It is the virtue of treating our bodies and our gifts, which God gave us,
with reverence and respect.
The better you and I learn to say no to our own, “I want it now!” voice,
The better we learn to say yes, very generously, to others.
That’s fundamentally why chastity matters.
- Everyone is called to be a life-giver, throughout our lives.
And that is the thread linking all the readings.
Jesus highlights how we can be life-givers:
both in ordinary food, and in forgiveness.
To state the obvious: the Christian virtue of chastity can seem strange to some.
It is mocked and demeaned. It is challenging to live out.
Maybe you wonder: Why does God care?
A lot of folks seem to think that, no, God doesn’t care.
That everything will sort out in the end and everyone’s happy forever.
But if that’s true, God could have told Abraham that – but he didn’t.
Jesus could have told us that – but he didn’t.
The hard truth we learn through life is that our choices matter a great deal.
They shape who we ultimately become.
By our choices – including whether we repent and convert –
either you and I grow into a God-like capacity to give ourselves away,
or else we narrow ourselves, and even twist ourselves,
around a counterfeit happiness that can never truly satisfy.
I will be specifically personal here about myself.
My particular shape is not a result of a really bad bee-sting.
I like to eat, more than I should.
That is a moral failing in me. Gluttony is a sin – not a grace.
Pray for me that I love food less, so that I can love Christ more.
Each of us takes up the Cross, beginning in baptism.
Jesus offers everyone the best of gifts, the Holy Spirit,
who gives us clarity to see, and courage to choose:
my “no” today opens up to thousand “yesses” in this life,
and even more, eternal life.