I resolved to know nothing while I was with you except Jesus Christ, and him crucified -- St. Paul, I Corinthians 2:2
Wednesday, November 10, 2021
If the National (not very) Catholic Reporter could be embarrassed...
Sunday, November 07, 2021
What will you put at risk for Christ? (Sunday homily)
The Gospel we just heard poses a very simple question,
but it cuts deep, right to our very core:
how much are you and I willing to give to Jesus Christ?
It’s not necessarily a matter of money.
The widow in the Gospel didn’t just give a donation.
As Jesus said, she gave everything she had to live on.
She put everything on the line.
How much will we put on the line?
Blessed John Newman, the great English protestant
who became Catholic, gave a sermon one time
in which he posed a similar question.
He asked whether we are really putting anything at risk for our faith.
And he made the point that quite a lot of us
probably would make most of the same decisions,
whether we believe in Jesus Christ or not.
We would probably have the same job, the same life, and so forth.
That is really quite a question, isn’t it?
What can you and I point to in our choices, in our lives,
that really is different, because we follow Jesus?
Many of our parents have rejected contraception,
and made other sacrifices in welcoming more children
and in making sure they have time to be with their children,
to give them every advantage as followers of Jesus.
They are thinking not only of this world, but the world to come.
There are spouses who struggle, but they hang in, to keep their vows.
I can imagine there are folks in business who have made decisions
that no one else knows about, taking a loss or forgoing extra profit.
There are probably many stories that could be told –
but we don’t tell the stories –
about forgiving a wrong, enduring mockery, taking the harder path,
because of the words of Christ and for love of him.
Still, there’s that widow. Not a rich person. A poor widow.
She gave not just something, but everything she had.
At this moment, I really think I’m in the way;
I’m interrupting a conversation
which is really between each of us, and Jesus himself.
He’s the one who makes the invitation.
He is the one who calls us:
come, follow me – and Peter and Andrew, James and John
left their nets; their livelihood; everything they had.
Jesus calls you.
Your Creator and Redeemer speaks to you as only he can.
He has prepared your life and given you your gifts.
What will you answer?
Tuesday, November 02, 2021
Who (or what) do you love? (Sunday homily)
Let’s dive into this Gospel reading a bit with a couple of questions.
First, what actually does it mean to “love”?
Answer: love is not a mere emotion, a rush of blood to your . . . face.
It’s not simply a flutter in your stomach.
Love is a choice.
Love is a fundamental commitment to the good of the other person.
So, whether I am talking about loving my family, my friends,
my country, a stranger, or even my enemy, it’s the same:
willing the good of the other person.
But now we have a puzzle: how does this apply to God?
When you and I say we “love” God, how, exactly?
What good can I will for God?
God has every perfection; he needs nothing at all,
that I can either give him or want him to have.
Part of the answer is that God points us to our fellow man, as if to say,
I don’t need anything; but look around:
there are hungry people, folks who are in crisis,
children who are abandoned,
people suffering from poverty or injustice or violence.
You want to love Me, God says? Love them in my name.
So, today, after Mass, you can do this
by picking up some pans and recipes for making casseroles.
I think it’s a good guess that of the 700 hundred or so folks
who will come to Mass here this weekend,
at least half of us are old enough to make a casserole.
Two casseroles aren’t much harder than one.
Making even four casseroles isn’t that difficult.
So, I really think St. Remy could generate 1,000 casseroles.
Let’s see if we can hit 500 this time!
That said, there are those who have tried to boil down
the first commandment, “Love God,”
to the second commandment, “Love they neighbor.”
But if that were all there is to it, then Jesus would have said that.
So there’s still the question: how do you and I actually love God?
And I think part of the answer has to be, to love God as God, meaning,
to adore God, to worship God, to bend the knee to him.
Thus, the first of the Ten Commandments says,
“I am the Lord your God; you shall not have any other gods.”
There are those who say, I don’t see why I am obligated to go to Mass,
I don’t need this – and I suspect some here have said this at times:
the answer is, Yes, you and I do need to go to Mass.
I’d like to take more time on this next point, but I will say briefly,
Notice I said, go to MASS, not merely, “go to church.”
It’s not about the building but about Jesus offering himself for us
to the Father. That’s what Holy Mass IS.
Reading the Bible, praying the Rosary, meditating on God’s Creation –
these are good things, but nothing compares to the Holy Mass.
Many people have legitimate challenges in getting to Mass,
but a lot of the time, it’s because the wrong thing is put first.
Humanity needs to worship God.
If we do not worship God, we will end up worshipping something worse.
Or as Bob Dylan sang, “You gotta serve somebody.”
My German ancestors ran around the Black Forest
worshipping nature and trees. Sound familiar?
We are all in favor of safeguarding the environment,
but do you think some people take it too far?
There’s actually a thing called the “Extinction Movement.”
You know what that’s about? Our extinction: no more humans!
No, we don’t have temples with idols dotting the landscape,
but that doesn’t mean you and I aren’t tempted to worship other gods.
It can be money or success or power or wrath,
but eventually it gets revealed as worshipping ourselves, our own will.
We Americans love to emphasize freedom,
but that too can become an idol.
Consider how the self-will has been lifted so high,
that if you make a joke I don’t like, that’s called “violence.”
Consider the “transgender” phenomenon.
Let’s acknowledge that real people are experiencing
an alienation from themselves – it’s not clear why,
but it really happens and it creates real pain and suffering.
So, I’m not making light of this.
That said, we’re at a point where the supposed answer is,
you and I get to create a bubble of our own reality around ourselves.
I’m going to change my pronouns, and you must agree!
We’re making a god of the will to the point
that I can create my own universe,
superior to the objective world around us!
People experiencing gender confusion deserve better than that.
What happens when we don’t worship God? We worship something else.
And you may scoff and say, that doesn’t affect me,
but our government is determined that it will.
And that’s only one way we go wrong.
To repeat: if you and I don’t worship the one, true God,
then we will worship something else.
Sunday, October 24, 2021
A homily about hope (30th Sunday in Ordinary Time)
These readings highlight the virtue of hope.
The first reading is all about hope for the remnant of God’s People.
And the blind man in the Gospel hopes for a miracle, so he can see.
Hope is about what you cannot see, what seems impossible.
That’s what Saint Paul says in his letter to the Romans:
when you see it, when you have it in front of you, that’s not hope.
So, question: how are you doing on hope?
I ask because there are various concerns and anxieties
weighing people down these days:
the way the government is handling matters,
the rising cost of living,
the employment situation,
Covid and vaccine mandates,
the plight of Americans and our friends left behind in Afghanistan;
and if that’s not enough, there’s always the fears generated
by the Archdiocese’s reorganization project which they’ve cheerfully named…”
Beacons of Hope Light”!*
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not writing that off; just noting the humor.
Anyway, let’s talk about hope.
Hope isn’t about when things are going your way.
It comes into play precisely when the wheels are falling off!
Jeremiah’s beautiful words of hope
were given to his people at the moment they were facing annihilation,
the destruction of their country.
Bartimaeus inspires us, but he’d been blind since birth.
He was a penniless beggar, and his hope was for a miracle.
It ended well, but it raises a question:
If you’re worked up about a problem, are you as serene as Bartimaeus?
If not, why not?
My point isn’t to promise everyone a miracle,
but to illustrate the courage of Bartimaeus’ hope.
Where does that hope come from? How do you achieve it?
Remember, hope is one of the “theological” virtues –
Faith, Hope and Love – that come from God and it make us like God.
So if you want hope, as the Holy Spirit for hope.
And I mean, more than just once, or once in a while.
Ask, ask, and ask 100 more times. Keep asking.
A second point: just because what we hope for isn’t seen,
doesn’t mean we don’t see causes for hope, or signs giving us hope.
Bartimaeus was blind, but his hope was not:
he didn’t pick Jesus at random.
He’d heard things about Jesus that gave him reasons for hope.
So if you aren’t experiencing hope,
then may I suggest you start looking around for reasons for hope.
If necessary, take a half hour, and a pencil and paper,
and start writing down everything that is a sign or a cause for hope.
This is really old-fashioned advice, but it works.
Everyone here knows you can put a lot of things on that page.
A big part of Jeremiah’s message is that true, lasting hope
isn’t in political power or prosperity, but in having God in their hearts.
Or, you could say, it’s not real estate but relationship.
It wasn’t about the land they longed for,
but having their hearts and God’s heart fused together.
That is the only sure ground for hope!
Now: stop and realize that what was merely hope for Jeremiah
is not hope for us, because we have it!
The new and everlasting covenant!
God came, became one of us, took a heart of flesh and blood,
and offered himself for us.
You and I have Him in the Mass, in the Eucharist, in our hearts!
“I am with you always,” Jesus said, “until the end of the world!”
You and I don’t have to hope for this – we HAVE this!
Nothing and no one can take this from us.
Remember Bartimaeus and remember what they said to him:
“Take courage. Get up. Jesus is calling you.”
* Of course it's "Beacons of Light," my mistake.
Sunday, October 10, 2021
Treasure for Treasure (Sunday homily)
I want to say something about the annual financial report,
which is included in today’s bulletin,
but that won’t be the main subject of my homily.
Once a year I address this topic because
I want you to know your pastor pays attention to such matters.
And I want you to see for yourself how everything is handled,
that your parish handles your money carefully – and where it goes.
What is given in the bulletin is only a summary;
there is a far more detailed report that is prepared every year,
and anyone who wants to see it is welcome to.
If you want to see that, or you have any questions, just let me know.
Some years it is necessary to ask your help to close a deficit;
or there are unexpected expenses that need explaining.
Despite all that is crazy in the world around us,
this year, St. Remy’s finances lately are happily boring.
So it really is just a coincidence that I’m talking about the budget
on the same Sunday Jesus says, “give all your money away”!
Thank you for your generous support,
which keeps our parish financially stable
and pays the bills for all we do at St. Remy.
I am confident you see the value of what we’re doing,
and you want to keep it going.
What the Scripture readings invite us to do is ask:
what truly is my most valuable possession?
There aren’t very many people who actually admit
that money and wealth are what matter most to them.
And yet it happens – more than we want to admit.
Not all of us to give away all our wealth.
Jesus knew that’s what the young man in front of him needed.
For the rest of us: how do we learn to love our possessions less?
Let me offer a few suggestions.
Parents, if you aren’t doing it already, think about how your children –
no matter how young they are – can learn to be less materialistic.
They may not yet know the value of money,
but I bet they have stuff they love, maybe too much?
What could they give away?
Don’t be afraid to say “no” to your kids’ requests for stuff.
My poor parents, I don’t know how they did it, but at some point –
with seven kids – they learned not to be manipulated by our dramatics.
My dad was actually fine with me having whatever I wanted.
He would smile and say, “save your money and buy it!”
May I also suggest trying to have a budget.
Financial advisors always say, “pay yourself first,”
meaning, save for the future.
As your soul advisor, I suggest you pay God first.
Have some idea of what you will give away, in money or time.
It doesn’t have to be a large amount; start small.
I know a man who has been tremendously successful in business
and years ago, he decided he would plan things
so that he gave all his money away by the time he died.
How he’s working that out I don’t know.
But one consequence was that he started
giving away more than he had before.
It changed how he thought about money.
He started thinking more about the good it could do for others;
and above all, about the true treasure he has in Jesus Christ.
The lesson here isn’t just about money,
it’s about no longer being blind to whatever we value more than Jesus.
And seeing the young man turn away raises another point:
you and I never know what the road not taken would lead to.
If I give up a bad habit, I realize my life will be better,
but how much better?
If I no longer spend hours absorbed with the Internet,
where will that time go instead? To my faith?
To my spouse or my kids? What difference might that make?
Once again: what is really the most important thing to you?
Who is most important?
What will you give up to have that treasure?
Saturday, October 02, 2021
The Family of Parishes & the Family as God created (Sunday homily)
Obviously everyone is talking about the announcement Friday
of the proposed “family” of parishes, of which St. Remy will be part.
That “family” will be made up of the following parishes:
Saint Louis in North Star and St. Nicholas in Osgood,
Holy Family in Frenchtown, St. Denis in Versailles, St. Remy,
Immaculate Conception in Bradford, and St. Mary in Greenville.
There will be three priests in total, one of them as pastor.
There are several things I ask you to keep in mind.
First, this arrangement is not set in stone.
The Archbishop is planning to make a final decision in November.
Second, we don’t know which priests will be assigned to this family.
I hope to stay here, and I’ve offered to be pastor.
But that won’t be known until February or so.
Third, I know everyone is going to have so many questions,
many, or most, of which I won’t be able to answer.
I don’t know if I’ll be the pastor,
and someone else might handle it a different way.
Also, it’s REALLY important that everyone
in all these communities is included BEFORE decisions are made.
So I can’t start spouting off before that happens, you understand?
Please be patient when I keep saying, I don’t know! We’ll get there.
Of course everyone is going to have different reactions:
maybe shock or anger or disappointment or worry.
My reaction was actually relief; because now we know.
We can move forward; less uncertainty is better than more.
Here’s my view of the overall map for all 19 counties.
There are some arrangements that are ridiculously large –
such as in Logan, Champaign and Clarke counties –
while many of the parishes in Cincinnati,
including the Cathedral, are being handled with kid gloves.
That said, when it comes to our arrangement here,
this is as Goldilocks might say, “not too hot, and not too cold.”
I strongly encourage you to go to the Archdiocese website
and leave comments on the plan. You can write a letter as well.
Be clear, be specific, be constructive, be courteous.
As mentioned, there will be three priests for this new family.
Right now, there are five; so obviously,
the daily and Sunday Mass schedules will have to change,
and that will likely have to happen by July.
So, you should be prepared to hear a lot more,
and we’ll figure out how everyone can give input in the new year.
I understand this is all a lot to take in.
I want you to know I intend to keep you well informed and also,
I intend to do everything I can to make this work.
And if we ALL are flexible and cooperate, we WILL make it work.
At the same time, each of the individual parish communities
has its own identity and gifts, and no one wants to lose that.
That’s why the term “family of parishes” is well chosen.
In a family, we are not all carbon copies of each other.
There’s room for a lot of diversity and differences – BUT:
in a family, we aren’t all Lone Rangers, on our own.
In a family, we keep our own personalities, but stick together.
Today is “Respect Life Sunday,” and one of the special things
about this larger community is that so many have a heart
for the unborn child and for their mothers
who sometimes don’t have the help and support they need.
Meanwhile, the readings are all about the true nature of family:
a man and a woman, together for life,
cooperating with God who alone gives life.
Notice: today, every detail of this divine design is under attack:
Man-woman; together-for-life; cooperate with God.
Also notice that every detour from God’s plan,
while it seems to bring happiness, ultimately fails to do so.
Jesus mentions divorce. That’s too complex for this homily.
To state what used to be obvious:
every effort should be made to avoid divorce.
I’ve seen both parties try very hard to heal things – and it works!
Not without pain, and not without great patience and forgiveness.
On the other hand, sometimes a civil divorce can’t be avoided.
And the Church teaches that there can be situations –
involving violence, abuse, danger to the children, or financial ruin –
where a spouse is justified in seeking a legal separation.
What Jesus is saying is that a decision by a judge – a court ruling –
can only change the legal, this-world relationship.
But marriage is more than a legal contract,
and everyone knows that’s true; because even after a divorce,
there are still relationships and responsibilities,
particularly involving children.
I also want to say to anyone who has been through a divorce:
sometimes you think you can’t be Catholic anymore. Not true!
Rather than try to deal with all the questions here, just call me!
I’m not going to shake my finger at you.
I’ll be very glad to clear up misconceptions, and help any way I can.
As you’ve noticed, we’ve talked about family a couple of ways.
I know there are negatives to this parish reorganization,
and we will just have to sit with that for a bit.
But at some point, you and I have to get on to the task –
forgive the repetition – of being a family.
Meaning, we’ll have our arguments and push and shove,
but we’re a family; we are in this together.
The reason the family exists – I mean both the natural family
and the spiritual family, which we call the Church –
is to be God’s image in the world and to bring God’s life into the world.
Friday, September 24, 2021
Toxic Religion
This article at Religion Dispatches caught my eye.And it's tempting to dismiss it, given that there are so many assumptions the author treats as self-evident that are anything but. The most obvious one, it seems to me, is this: if you want to maintain that truth can't be known certainly, then how do you avoid the conclusion that what is truly right and wrong is likewise uncertain? And once you concede that, how do you take any kind of righteous stance against "wrong" or "evil"? Aren't you really conceding that a statement like, "X is wrong" or, "X is evil" means nothing more than, "____ is wrong/evil for me"? It's nothing more than a preference, and why should your preference be imposed?
Sunday, September 19, 2021
Change is coming. Change our hearts to get ready (Sunday homily)
Today I’m going to talk about the “Beacons of Light”
reorganization project that is underway.
Let me lay this out very plainly:
Like it or not, change is coming.
Some people are getting too nervous about it – please don’t do that!
This isn’t the end of the world, or even close.
But there are others who aren’t paying attention; it’s a boring topic.
Yet, when change comes these folks will be surprised and angry,
saying no one told them!
So: I’m telling you: change is coming! What change?
Archbishop Schnurr is preparing to organize all 200 or so parishes
in the diocese under the leadership of 50 pastors.
Right now he’s weighing the possibilities, and in about ten days,
he’ll lay out a tentative plan with all the priests.
On October 1, his proposal will be published online for all to see.
Then you and everyone will have 20 days to post comments.
After that he will announce a final decision
and then this will all start being put into effect in 2022.
Then begins several years of adjustment and adaptation.
All this means that most likely, starting in July,
this parish will begin sharing a pastor with several other parishes.
This arrangement will probably mean a second priest
will be assigned to help take care of the new “family” of parishes.
Why is this happening?
In many places, pews are empty and those parishes are struggling.
Meanwhile, we have 110 pastors in the diocese.
Fifty-eight of them – more than half – are over 60,
which means a big wave of retirements during the next decade.
The Archbishop is acting now to get ahead of that challenge.
Right now, my purpose is to alert you,
and to provide all the information I can.
Please read my weekly column; I will share information there,
including links to websites where you will find more.
If you have questions, please ask.
I can’t promise to have the answer, but I don’t mind the question.
I can tell you that I’m sharing everything I know;
I’m not holding anything back, not keeping anything secret.
But I am just hitting key points. If you want every last detail,
I urge you to go to the Archdiocese’ website and dig deep as you want.
That web address will be in the bulletin.
Meanwhile, keep praying: this is a great time to heed the advice
of St. James and the Lord in the Gospel:
to keep our egos in check, and to try to appreciate the bigger picture.
For example, there will be changes in Mass schedules.
That will cause a lot of grinding of teeth.
For this parish, the biggest change will be sharing your priest
with several other parishes.
It’s been over a century since we had to do that.
Early on, our priest would have duties in Versailles, later in Piqua.
When a priest is asked to shift from being a pastor to one parish,
to leading three or four, you can’t expect him to operate
as if he were three people.
He can’t do the work of three people. No one can.
He shouldn’t be expected to attend three times as many meetings;
and why would you want him to?
And when you take three or four parishes that were on their own,
and ask them to operate as one “family,”
everyone is going to have to adapt and be flexible.
As you can imagine, I’m thinking about this A LOT.
And I will predict that when the time comes,
some changes will be made that will have people saying
they can’t see the reason, and that will breed frustration.
Let me give you an example.
It occurred to me that our weekly bulletin will have to change.
Instead of having a bulletin all about St. Remy,
while the other parishes have their own bulletins,
we’ll need to start having a common bulletin for the whole “family.”
Why is that?
Because one of the things that will breed distrust really fast
is if everyone isn’t operating from the same information.
If you have three or four parishes that are now one “family,”
they need to plan together, not independently.
And that means everyone needs to have all the same information.
If you keep each parish isolated from the others, it won’t work.
I can’t give you a comprehensive list of all that will change.
It’s going to take time to figure it out.
I’m simply trying to give you a sense of it, so that you can prepare.
There’s no denying the negatives of this, but there are some positives.
Not every parish has a well organized religious education program;
lots of parishes’ youth programs are minimal.
Grouping parishes together this way will share these benefits,
truly making us brighter “beacons” of Christ’s light in this area.
Remember: our Catholic faith is NOT changing.
The sacraments are not changing. Jesus Christ is not changing!
If we have to adapt and stretch and even make sacrifices,
that’s something the Catholic Church has had to do in every century, since the beginning.
Why should you and I expect anything different?
Sunday, September 12, 2021
No Christ -- no life -- without the Cross (Sunday homily)
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In the Gospel, Peter is offended
by the idea of the Messiah going to the cross.
But then, isn’t what Peter says just what we might say?
If someone says to us, “I’ve got a terrible path ahead of me,”
wouldn’t we say, “God forbid! No such thing shall ever happen to you”?
And yet Jesus whips around and says,
“Get behind me, Satan!”
He’s not rejecting Peter; but he is warning him
of how misled, and ultimately fruitless, his thinking is.
And notice, Jesus doesn’t say get away from me,
but rather, “get behind me”—
he still wanted Peter with him, but not as a roadblock.
How does this apply to us?
Well, I think about how some people respond when someone says,
“I am thinking about being a priest,” or entering religious life.”
And parents and grandparents will say, oh no, that will be too hard;
you’ll be lonely, you won’t make much money.
They try to talk their children out of it, too much of the cross.
I have known great joy as a priest.
But if anyone wants an easy path, don’t be a priest;
we do NOT need any priests who want an easy path. Not even one.
To be a priest is to unite yourself with Jesus the High Priest,
and his priesthood is the Cross.
The joy I have as a priest is seeing how life is born from the Cross.
I get to see that in people’s lives every single day.
Next Jesus then goes on to say – to everyone –
Whoever comes after me must take up his cross and follow me.
“Whoever”! That’s every single one of us.
Parents, I want you to know what Karen, Mark Travis and I –
what our staff, and our many, talented volunteer catechists –
are telling our boys and girls in our religious education classes,
and in our youth programs.
We’re telling them that to be a Christian man or woman
isn’t to run away from the Cross, but to face it.
That’s where virtue happens. That’s how we become saints.
This is a good time to talk about a part of our Faith
that is most misunderstood, and most widely disregarded,
and yet I think it will prove, in years to come,
to be the most prophetic.
I mean our teaching – which goes back to the beginning of Christianity, by the way –
about contraception and openness to life:
that all acts of marital love between husband and wife
must be open to life;
and that life must have its beginning,
not in a laboratory, but in a couple’s act of love.
Of course I realize being a parent is a sacrifice.
So many of you bear witness to this every day;
and I will always remember the sacrifices my parents made,
which I had to reach adulthood to understand fully.
But to me, that only proves the truth of this teaching:
because notice, it puts the cross right at the center of marriage.
How can a Christian marriage be otherwise?
How can a home and a family be Christian,
without the Cross right at the center?
So there is either the sacrifices of having a larger family,
or the sacrifices of times of self-denial
that are part of Natural Family Planning.
And of course this is a challenge, I won’t minimize that.
But what doesn’t make sense is to say
“this teaching can’t be true, because it’s too sacrificial.”
I see no way to square that with what we just heard Jesus say.
And before I move on, let me state something clearly:
all the various ways to make these acts of love sterile are mortal sins.
Let’s go back to Jesus’ words:
You and I can’t be his disciple without the Cross.
As much as we might like to, it simply won’t work.
Bishop Fulton Sheen once explained powerfully
what happens when you separate the Christ and the Cross.
If you try to have Christ without the Cross,
you end up with cheap sentimentality.
This is the Jesus so many say they admire – “oh, isn’t he nice!”
But why would you give your life for Hallmark Card pieties?
Then Sheen talked about the alternative: a cross without Jesus.
In his time, Bishop Sheen cited communism,
but the point can easily be made about all kinds of movements
that invite people to discipline, self-denial
and dedication to something greater than oneself.
In our comfort-rich but meaning-impoverished culture,
this is attractive.
You can see many today who build their lives around various causes.
This explains why so many are drawn to Islam,
and this includes many conversions happening in American prisons.
The trouble, as Sheen said,
is that the Cross without Christ is authoritarian and cruel;
conversion without love and forgiveness only means conformity.
There is death but no resurrection.
Saturday was 9-11, and we remembered those events of 20 years ago.
Followers of a Cross-without-Christ flew those planes into the Towers,
saying that the world must be purified.
A Christ-without-the-Cross looks on in horror, but does nothing.
Those who ran into the fire showed us:
no one has greater love than this: to lay down ones life for another.
There are lots of reasons to recoil from the Cross as Peter did.
But there is no other way to real life.
Wednesday, September 08, 2021
'May I attend the wedding?' Guide for Catholics
This article by Father Francis Hoffman (via Steve Ray) is very well done, and states everything clearly and succinctly.
The only thing I would add is a little depth to his third case: of nominally or lapsed Catholics who do not marry in a Catholic wedding. Consider the following case, which is very common:
A lapsed Catholic who is free to marry seeks to marry a non-Catholic, who likewise is free to marry. The Catholic has no particular desire, unfortunately, to practice his or her Catholic Faith. If the Catholic marries without benefit of the Catholic form of marriage, that marriage is treated as invalid by the Church, although -- as Father Hoffman says, it is potentially valid.
But before you say, then a Catholic should not attend that wedding, unless the Catholic party remedies this situation, let me explain something: there may not be any way -- in good conscience -- for the Catholic party to remedy it! Let me elaborate.
Suppose you tell your lapsed-Catholic friend, "look, we can fix this. Come with me to see Father Friendly, who will explain how you can be validly married. You can even be married at the park as you planned, since your intended is not Catholic, so whatever form of marriage s/he prefers can be an option -- with the bishop's dispensation."
Your lapsed-Catholic friend agrees, the couple meets with Father. In the course of that meeting, Father will explain everything, including that the Catholic party -- marrying a non-Catholic -- must make two promises:
Do you reaffirm your faith in Jesus Christ, and intend to live that faith as a Catholic?
Will you do all in your power to share your faith with your children by having them baptized and raised as Catholics?
Do you see the problem?
Here it is: we saw above that this lapsed-Catholic does not desire to practice the Catholic faith. Perhaps s/he does not believe in Jesus. Perhaps s/he has joined another religion, or simply has no faith at all.
The only way this marriage can be "recognized" is either the lapsed-Catholic must believe -- that is, undergo conversion -- or else, answer insincerely. (And don't doubt for a moment that happens!)
Does that seem just to you? Do you think that is the intent of Catholic norms on marriage, to say that if you lapse from your faith, you may never enter into a valid marriage?
At one time, a provision in canon law specifically said that someone who formally defected from the Catholic Faith was not bound to the Catholic form of marriage; that was intended, I think, for such situations. This provision, however, was deleted. Why? Because that deletion solved a knotty problem: Catholics who defected from the faith came to their senses, and sought to return to the faith -- and perhaps what helped them wake up was realizing they'd entered into a marriage (outside the church) hastily and without care, and now that marriage was a wreck. Alas, the marriage was presumed valid, and they had to go through the arduous process of asking for a declaration that it was otherwise -- i.e., null.
Since such situations often involved a lot of immaturity, the sense was that by treating such marriages as invalid -- for lack of form -- then the Catholic who is now back to his/her senses can either resolve the problem of a foolish (and invalid) marriage easily; or else seek the Church's help in that marriage being recognized as valid.
However understandable that concern was, it created a new problem which I highlighted. How is that to be resolved? Are we to press people to make insincere declarations of faith?
Sunday, September 05, 2021
Two words to say it all: what will you say? (Sunday homily)
Just as a change of pace, I’m going to tell a joke.
There’s this man and he decides to join a religious community.
It is very strict and observes total silence; no one speaks at all.
After six months, he meets with the superior,
and then, he can say just two words.
So the superior calls him in, and asks for his two words:
“Bad food,” he says.
The superior nods, and sends him back to his room to keep praying.
Another six months go by, and he meets the abbot again,
who asks for his two words: “Hard bed.”
The abbot nods and sends him back to his room.
Another six months go by, and the abbot calls him back a third time.
This time his two words are, “I quit.”
The abbot responds sadly, “I can’t say that I’m surprised;
ever since you got here, all you’ve done is complain!”
What if all you got to say were two words.
Two words to tell people what you stand for,
what matters most in your life?
What two words would you choose?
Friday, September 03, 2021
No, the Supreme Court did not uphold Texas' heartbeat law.
This week a new law went into effect in Texas, outlawing most abortions after the unborn child's sixth week of life. The not-very-bright, never-thinking-independently talking heads and professional shriekers all did their thing, especially when the U.S. Supreme Court did not do anything to block the new law. As a result, this looks like a big victory for the prolife cause.
Well, hold on.
First, here's why the U.S. Supreme Court didn't do anything. Normally, when a court blocks a law, what it actually does is issue an injunction stopping individuals from enforcing the law. Most of the time, those individuals are office holders: presidents, governors, attorneys general, judges, etc. (Here's a good explanation of the legal landscape.)
But this new law did something rather different. It specifically bars anyone in public office from enforcing this particular law! Instead, it allows for any private citizen to sue, in civil court, anyone who provides or facilitates abortions that are contrary to this new law.
So, the reason the U.S. Supreme Court didn't do anything, is because it's far from clear who, precisely, the court was supposed to enjoin: every citizen and resident in the state of Texas? Thankfully, the too-expansive powers of the courts aren't that expansive. Indeed, if you look closely at the petition that came before the high court this week, the abortion-defenders were asking for injunctions against a handful of people. Setting aside whether such an injunction would have been lawful, it would have been ineffective, because as I said, anyone at all can file a lawsuit against an abortion-provider.
So, is that it? Is that the end of the story? Not at all.
There's still a lot of legal wrangling to come, and as I am not an attorney, I won't try to parse all that. But here's what the framers of the law expect to have happen. At some point, someone actually files a civil lawsuit; and now there's a court case; and the abortionist or someone else who is implicated in abortion must defend him- or herself in court. The new law specifically says that one defense is to say that the abortion was legal under existing legal precedents (i.e., Roe and Casey). In other words, it's entirely possible that someone brings a civil suit against an abortionist, and the abortionist wins in state court.
On the other hand, in the event the abortionist (or insurer, or landlord who rents to the abortionist) loses, then it seems very likely that case ends up in the federal courts, and now, the federal courts have something they can "enjoin" -- i.e., the adverse judgment. Why? Because it conflicts with Roe or Casey. Alternately, the Supreme Court could then decide that the new law should be upheld, and so much the worse for prior precedents.
In the meantime, this new law makes things much more complicated for abortionists and their enablers; they have to deal with the threat of lawsuits from every side. And that prospect alone seems to be a victory, right?
Well, not so fast. What the conservative, pro-life majority in the Texas legislature can do, the liberal, pro-abortion majority in the California legislature can also do. Several years ago, California passed a law making life difficult for pro-life crisis pregnancy centers. After several years of litigation, the U.S. Supreme Court struck down that law. So why can't California try again, only this time, barring any public official from enforcing the law, and instead, invite private citizens to file lawsuits against pro-life pregnancy counseling centers?
Or, do the same against gun manufacturers and sellers?
Or, do the same to get at speech they don't like?
The possibilities are endless and not appealing. Recall the scene from Hunt for Red October: the Russian sub captain cleverly turns off the safeties on his torpedoes after Ramius tricks him; but then those torpedoes circle back on the Russian sub.
Again, I'm not a lawyer, but it seems to me there could be a case to be made that when government passes a law, it's the government's job to enforce it, and to make sure enforcement of that law is fair and unprejudiced. Call it a matter of due process, or "equal protection under the law," or an application of the "privileges and immunities" clause in the 14th Amendment. But if laws are passed with empower a flood of lawsuits, the chilling effect on the exercise of a constitutional right is real and serious. Of course, the Constitution does not and ought not grant a right to kill an unborn child. But so the U.S. Supreme Court has held more than once, and that is the real problem.
Sunday, August 29, 2021
My weekend...
Here's a vignette...
Several weeks ago, a local group planned to bring a priest here from Haiti. His parish benefits from contributions from local folks -- including my parishioners -- so this was an opportunity for them to know where their money goes, and for the priest and the Haitian parish to tell their story.
Meanwhile, I had a wedding scheduled for Saturday...that means a rehearsal Friday, of course.
Somewhere in there I got a call: So-and-so was from your parish; she died; her funeral was at Such-and-such a parish, will you lead prayers at the grave on Saturday? Sure.
(It's starting to get complicated, but what can I do?)
Priest visiting from Haiti speaks little English; he brings a parishioner of his who speaks English. The group here, that is organizing things, has a schedule for him to meet with this group, that group, see this and that. He's going to be at all the Masses this weekend. I speak up: Father should be given an opportunity to offer Mass himself; even in French, if that's all that works. I stupidly thought Haitians all speak French; they speak Creole, which is French derived, but not the same thing. At any rate, we planned for one Mass to be a mixture of French and English, meaning, Father could offer Mass and we'd all just manage.
Father-from-Haiti is very pleasant, but little time to visit. I've got a rehearsal, he's got visits...
Oh, and the retired priest who was going to come on Saturday morning -- I have two other Masses -- gets a fever. Now I have three Saturday Masses, plus confessions, plus the burial...
And then I get a call: a longtime parishioner died. When shall I meet with the family? How about Saturday, between the burial for the other lady, and the wedding? That's all that works. Thank God, everyone who came for the 11:30 am burial arrived by 11:30 am. Bereavement meeting at noon went smoothly -- good, as there's a wedding at 1:30 and I need to be in the sacristy at 1 pm. "Father, it's hot in church!" "Yes, and I suggest that if you keep these inside doors closed, that'll help." "Good idea!"
Oh, did I mention I was sick this past week? Nothing serious, but I was hoarse and coughing a lot. No one likes to have the priest up at the altar, coughing. Thankfully, I felt pretty good by 1 pm on Saturday. But at the 8:15 am Mass, I said, "it's going to be a long day, sorry but no homily, no petitions..."
The families kindly invited me to the reception; and if they do (they don't always), I am happy to go.
Oh, I forgot to mention two phone calls on Friday: about a very difficult situation. No details, sorry, it's private; but VERY difficult, and I apologized for not being able to talk longer, but -- the rehearsal was in 15 minutes.
So, by Saturday evening, things seemed on a good slide. All I had to worry about for Sunday was...
The priest visiting from Haiti would be the celebrant; but I would assist as I could, as he spoke almost no English; no one else in church spoke French. It worked, but there were some bumps.
Two more Masses...it went fine.
Then a baptism, now we're on the easy side of the day. Did I mention I was getting hoarse and coughing a little?
The visiting priest and his interpreter headed out after that, to another parish nearby and then to Indiana. Not so easy for them. Hearing about the deprivation in Haiti is...amazing. How blessed we are.
So it's been a couple of hours, doing nothing but drinking a cold drink on my porch, and nothing else.
Friday, August 27, 2021
The new war on tradition
It's been about five weeks since Pope Francis issued Traditiones Custodes, his motu proprio greatly restricting the Traditional Latin Mass (TLM), and everything, apparently, associated with it.
This decision hit me so hard that I barely talked about it, to anyone, for a week or two. I made only the briefest mention of it at Mass. Meanwhile, I contacted Archbishop Schnurr almost instantly to ask for whatever permissions were possible. Via the priest he designated as his "delegate" to handle these matters, I received permission to offer the Traditional Latin Mass "privately." No permission to celebrate any of the other sacraments in the traditional form; nor, it seems, for me to use the older forms of blessings. The Archbishop gave permission for two parishes in Cincinnati to continue offering the TLM, a parish in Dayton, and he indicated he would designate a site up north as well; that hasn't happened yet.
An aside: some want to fault Archbishop Schnurr for not being generous enough in applying, or even in sidestepping, the pope's edict. I am not a canon lawyer, so I am in no position to fault how Father Ruiz, the designated delegate, or the Archbishop himself, are construing things. But I do know they both are trying to act in accord with their consciences, as is right. And I know the following to be true: prior to Traditiones Custodes, Schnurr could not have been more generous toward those interested in traditional rites. Every priest was welcome to offer the TLM; training was generously made available; he made no problems whatsoever. The Archbishop takes seriously his moral duty to be obedient and I think he is trying to do that. Second, the choice of Father Ruiz was entirely suitable and irenic. He, too, has been supportive, and will do everything he can, conscientiously, to assist those interested in traditional forms.
So, to put it simply, even if you think Archbishop Schnurr could handle this differently, remember he is not the author of this new reality, and he is trying to navigate this with the long-term in view.
After a week, I did start writing about this situation in the parish bulletin, and I did work out how I would handle things at St. Remy. I have permission to offer the TLM privately; I have permission to allow a layperson to assist as an altar server; I have permission to do this in the church; no one told me to lock the doors or kick the faithful out of church; and I was told that if people wished to receive Holy Communion, I could give them the Eucharist. So these are the things I am doing. What, then, does offering Mass "privately" mean? It means that such a Mass cannot be on the parish schedule, nor can it be "announced." So, I regularly offer the TLM privately, without any announcement; but I do it the same time each week. If people figure it out and show up, what shall I do?
I am supremely confident that Archbishop Schnurr is entirely fine with people being present when I offer such a private Mass, but I can readily imagine it being otherwise. In the Diocese of Pittsburgh, the bishop has forbidden priests from any private Traditional Latin Mass. Meanwhile, in other places, even those things that might be suggestive of traditional things are being banned. In Costa Rica, vestments that savor of tradition are banned -- from use with the 1970 Mass -- as is Latin! A priest in the Archdiocese of Chicago has been told that he and the people must cease praying the St. Michael Prayer, and the Hail Mary, at the conclusion of Mass! Permission was graciously granted for them to do so silently.
All this is supremely silly and petty, and only serves to reflect badly on those who issue such edicts. What in the world does it even mean to say, you can't pray a prayer "after Mass"? Is the public recitation of the St. Michael Prayer forbidden entirely? No? Then how much time must elapse between the conclusion of Mass and the licit recitation of this prayer?
It may be hard to see it, but there will be good that comes from all this, although I doubt it will be what those who support this war on tradition hope for. But good will come, because it always does.
Meanwhile, there will be bad fruit as well; the instances I cited above are some of that bad fruit. There will be many who are discouraged -- I am discouraged! There will be further divisions as people take this opportunity to treat others badly, especially when they have the power to do so.
Also meanwhile, there are those counseling disobedience. I cannot assess the conscience of others, but I cannot endorse that.
It is one of the oldest and most seductive temptations: to justify disobedience out of an inflated sense of "necessity" and because some aspect of the obedience demanded is unfair or unjust. I will not say that there are never grounds for disobedience, but that option must be saved for last. However unfair it would be for the bishop to tell me (which he has not done, let me stress) that I may not offer the TLM at all, in my judgment, I would not be justified in defying him. If he directs me to offer the 1970 Mass only, then that is what I would do.
After all, whenever I reach the point that I think my only option is to disobey the bishop (or the pope), there still remains one other option: to resign -- i.e., from a pastoral assignment. Sure, I hear you say, "but that's exactly what these bishops want!" They may want this or that problem priest to go away, but they do need someone to staff parishes. Resignation is an entirely ethical way to refuse to obey; and it is a witness.
Remember, the battle is always the Lord's; and deciding to trust him is a powerful message, and a blameless one.
Meanwhile, we must simply wait for the contradictions that have been set in motion to grind away on each other. At Where Peter is, a gentlemen tries gamely to defend the pope's edict by arguing that the reason the TLM must be chucked out the window, in favor of the 1970 Missal, is because the new Mass is simply "better"; then to show the manifest inferiority of the old Mass, he cites several features that -- oops -- are likewise features of liturgy in non-Roman Catholic rites. Thus raising the question of whether these non-Roman rites must also be extirpated? The author tries to wave away the implication of his argument with a footnote: "Nothing I am saying here is meant to indicate any disunity between the Rites nor is it meant to indicate any inferiority of the other Catholic Rites." Well, you may not have "meant" to indicate inferiority, just as a poor driver doesn't mean to run the car into a telephone pole; but the mess remains.
The drift of these arguments -- and when arguments fail, naked impositions of power -- is to argue that no more debate may be tolerated about the 1970 Missal -- it's better, don't you see, so shut up! -- and for that matter, about anything that has followed the Second Vatican Council; and, for that matter, the Council itself. The basic approach here is simply to demand silence.
Not only won't that work; it is positively corrosive.
Many of us have long maintained that Vatican II was badly served by the implementation that followed, and I still take that view. But, if you keep insisting that people must accept it all -- the Council, plus the 1970 Missal AS-IS, plus all the rest of the decisions about religious life and architecture and catechesis -- as a package deal, while being told that if they question or wonder, they're schismatics and they "sadden" the Holy Father...
Well, people will stop asking their questions openly; but they won't stop wondering; and if they believe you that it's all a package deal, then at some point, people who previously did not question the Council itself may find themselves doing so. They will find themselves searching online for discussions of this subject; to learn more about an event that happened before they were born, and about which, they haven't really learned a whole lot. And if those in communion with Rome are forbidden to discuss openly these questions, then whose articles and websites do you suppose these inquisitive minds will land?
This all takes me back to when I entered the seminary. I had no particular interest in the the Traditional Latin Mass at the time; I had almost no experience with it and it was opaque to me. I had, however, familiarized myself with the documents of Vatican II before entering the seminary; that seemed common-sensical to do while waiting. But then I noticed something about the seminary (this was 1997): certain subjects and certain interests were verboten; any discussion was entered into furtively, while no faculty were around, and indeed, only with seminarians who one felt could be trusted.
What subjects and interests? Anything savoring of tradition! One was extremely careful about even expressing the slightest interest in the rites and forms of liturgy prior to 1970. Indeed, even expressing interest in clerical attire would get unfavorable notice from the "formators" -- because that might suggest a certain fetish about having a clerical identity: very unhealthy!
Guess what? This very climate of suppression and fear piqued my interest. Oh, I was quite careful myself; but all this seemed awfully curious to me: what was so dangerous about tradition? I naively thought of the Catholic Church as all about tradition; one of the things I had to wrestle with in my return to the Faith was understanding how tradition fit into the whole picture. And then I found myself asking: do these folks who are teaching us, or whose materials we are studying, imagine that Vatican II represented a break with the tradition? I knew in my bones that if there were two Churches (pre- and post-VII), then there is NO Church. The Church is one, and therefore, there must be continuity.
Thankfully, the seminary I attended is no longer subject to this repressive climate, but I suspect this sort of fearfulness is going to make a come-back in many places. It won't work, as it didn't work in my case and in the case of many with whom I attended the seminary; it will only serve to expose the fragility of the positions those who impose this sort of thought-control.
So, yes, this is all bad, but keep of good cheer. This new war on tradition will not be successful.
Sunday, August 22, 2021
'God dwells here' (Homily for Anniversary of St. Remy Dedication)
This weekend we recall the consecration of this church;
the actual anniversary is August 18,
but we move it to the nearest Sunday.
This year, we also celebrate 175 years of our parish.
The first Mass offered in Russia was not here,
but at what was then the DeBrosse farm on Versailles Road.
Father Navarron, the first pastor, lived in a small house there,
and he set aside part of his home as a chapel.
In October – after the harvest –
we’re going to have a pilgrimage out to that very location.
Also, as you know, after the 11 am Mass on Sunday,
we will have a picnic lunch and some live entertainment;
I hope you can come!
Let’s be clear about the meaning of this anniversary.
Our Mass prayers and our readings are all about this place, this church.
When this church was consecrated, it became a true Holy of Holies.
It is literally true to say: God dwells here.
This anniversary should be joyful; and yet there is anxiety.
Too many things in our church, our nation, our world, give us disquiet.
I am reminded of something Saint Augustine said 1,600 years ago:
Is there any affliction now endured by mankind
that was not endured by our fathers before us?
What sufferings of ours even bear comparison
with what we know their sufferings?
And yet you hear people complaining about this present day and age
because things were so much better in former times.
I wonder what would happen if they could be taken back
to the days of their ancestors –
would we not still hear them complaining?
You may think past ages were good,
but it is only because you are not living in them.
With that in mind, let’s recall our forebears who first arrived here.
They barely had anything we would call a “road”;
whatever resources they had – tools, food, life savings –
they brought with them.
None of their tools ran on either electric or gas – but sweat.
Imagine all the trees they cut down…with an axe or handsaw.
There was no 911 to call in an emergency.
No hospital to go to if you felt bad.
No antibiotics and not much to relieve pain.
It must have been a very hard life, and they knew it would be,
when they left all behind in Europe,
and sailed for several weeks across a vast ocean,
and then made their way deep into a wilderness of unknown peril.
When they arrived and caught their breath and wiped their brows,
it wasn’t long before they knew what they needed:
A house for God to dwell in. A priest to offer Holy Mass
and to baptize and to give absolution and the anointing of the sick
and all the sacraments.
They wanted God to dwell here, and their Catholic faith assured them
that in the Most Holy Eucharist, indeed God does dwell here.
Stop and think about the burden of work they faced,
and with what justification they could have said,
“we have so much we must do first; we’ll get around to God later.”
Instead they moved quickly to invite God to dwell in their midst.
You and I have heard such discouraging news in recent weeks.
How heavy it is to witness the suffering of people
in Afghanistan, Haiti – or a farm family in St. Henry.
That first generation who came here fled the wars of Europe;
as their sons came of age, they were called up for the Civil War.
In those days, a bad crop wasn’t just lost income; it was famine.
Do you dread the hostile culture around us?
Did you know that in 1855,
a mob set fire to the first Holy Angels church – in Sidney?
That was only one of many riots across the nation, targeting Catholics.
What gave them strength and confidence to keep going?
Their families; their faith; and this house of God.
Today when you leave this house,
will you know and be sure within yourself,
that you were with God today;
that you beheld him with your very eyes?
Will others you meet realize, from having met you,
that God dwells here?
Sunday, August 15, 2021
'Where Mary is, God wants us to be as well' (Assumption homily)
Today we remember Mary’s departure from this life
and entry into eternity.
We believe, as Pope Pius XII taught definitively in 1950,
“that the Immaculate Mother of God, the ever Virgin Mary,
having completed the course of her earthly life,
was assumed body and soul into heavenly glory.”
We believe this because early Christians believed it.
There is an interesting bit of concrete evidence for this:
and it is that nowhere on earth are the bones of Mary kept.
Surely, if her body had remained on earth,
Her remains would have been honored and protected,
and they would be venerated to this day.
The bones of the apostles have been preserved all these centuries;
It is impossible to believe Mary’s body would be any less honored.
A third reason we believe it is because it makes sense
that God would give this gift to her who cooperated so perfectly
and so powerfully with God’s plan to save the human race.
Now, there’s an important point to make about this gift given Mary,
like all the gifts God gave to her.
Mary being taken into heaven
isn’t only something that happened to her;
it has meaning for all of us, for all Christians.
Where Mary goes, we will go.
Everything God gave to Mary, he will give us as well.
So this is a powerful cause for hope.
As you know, I recently did a series of homilies
on the Mass and the Eucharist.
Last week, Deacon Ethan Hoying gave a powerful homily
on the Eucharist truly and really being Jesus’ Body and Blood.
There’s a connection between that subject and today’s observance,
and it is this: the Mass and the Eucharist aren’t only about
a backward connection to the First Good Friday and the Resurrection.
They are also about a forward connection to what we aim for –
where Mary has already arrived – and that is heaven.
The readings remind us of the “ark of the covenant.”
These details are fascinating.
This was a box, covered inside and out with pure gold.
This box was covered with a lid, on which two cherubim were fashioned.
Their wings extended toward each other.
FYI, if you ever saw the Indiana Jones movie,
it does a good job at least showing you what the ark looked like.
The ark had the original Ten Commandments placed in it,
along with a container holding some of the manna from the desert.
Once a year, the high priest would enter into the Holy of Holies –
where the ark was kept – in order to offer atonement for the people.
God’s Glory would come down and overshadow the ark;
the wings of the cherubim were referred to as the “Mercy Seat” –
a kind of throne for God.
Now, compare the old ark to the new ark – that is, Mary:
What is better than pure gold? How about pure holiness?
Mary was preserved, by God’s action, from any stain of sin.
Mary carried not God’s Word in stone, but the Word made flesh.
She bore not manna from the desert, but the true Bread from Heaven!
All this after the Holy Spirit of God overshadowed her.
And notice this: she was present when the true High Priest – her Son! –
offered atonement for sin, not once a year,
but once for all time and forever.
Here’s a secret that so many miss.
Do you know what is the closest you can be to heaven, while on earth?
It’s where you are right this moment.
Do you doubt that Mary believed that?
Do you have any question, that when the Apostles offered Mass,
she believed her Son when he said, “Do this in memory of me”?
She knew for certain that the bread and wine
truly became the Body and Blood of Jesus.
Do you deny that Mary above all would recognize her own son?
If Mary were still on earth, she’d be right here.
The Mass, the Eucharist, is not only union with Jesus on the Cross.
It is also union with Jesus risen from the dead;
Jesus reigning in heaven: union with Jesus FOREVER.
Where Mary is, God wants us to be as well.
Sunday, August 01, 2021
The Wondrous Exchange (Sunday homily)
Last Sunday, in my homily series,
we looked at the dimension of sacrifice:
the Holy Mass is a true and real sacrifice,
precisely because it is the re-presentation of Calvary.
To put crudely, the Mass is like a time-machine
that takes us to the first Good Friday.
A better way to say it is that the Mass,
because it is the action of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit,
is bigger than space and time. Bigger than everything!
When you and I take part in Mass, we tap into that power,
and we are taken both back in time to Calvary,
and also forward in time to the heavenly realities
toward which God is pulling us with all his might.
And to repeat an essential point:
to receive Holy Communion is to enter into union with God –
Father, Son and Holy Spirit – in the fullness of this reality.
So no one should ever receive the Eucharist
without faith and preparation and being in a state of grace.
This is all too important to be casual about it!
No one in her right might would say to a casual acquaintance,
let’s get married, right now!
Even moreso, no one should approach the altar of God
without great awareness of this awesome reality.
Today, I want to look again at this aspect of sacrifice,
but from a different angle;
and pose the question that maybe you’ve pondered – I know I have – which is this:
Why God? Why did you do it this way?
Why was the plan for the Son to die?
Here’s a reason that occurs to me.
Every one of us discovers, more than once and in more than one way, the division within ourselves.
Part of us aspires to be great; above all, morally great.
Who doesn’t admire a Mother Theresa, who gives her life for the poor?
Or Father Kapaun, who sacrificed his life in the Korean War,
for the soldiers he was there to help?
But then we always stumble over that other part of ourselves,
which you can see on full display beginning a few months after birth.
When we are little, you and I literally take the food
out of our parents’ mouths – we don’t care if they eat; gimme, MINE!
It’s a lifelong challenge: what do we call it? Dying to self!
Sooner or later, there can be real pain
as we confront that selfish barbarian inside ourselves:
he has to die so that we can really live.
In other words, humanity faced crucifixion whether Jesus came or not!
So look what God did: he said to humanity, your trial is mine!
Your pain is mine! Your death will become mine,
and in so doing, become life for you, not merely human but divine life!
Of course, we wonder, couldn’t God have spared us suffering?
And the answer has to be yes, he could, because he’s God.
If you are a parent, let me ask you this:
if you had it in your power,
would you prevent your child from any and all suffering?
You know you can’t; but what if you could?
And I don’t just mean exterior hardships, like losing a job,
or a broken heart, or physical disability or sickness.
The trials that matter most are when they become
a confrontation within ourselves, the choice between good and evil;
and whether we will pay the price
to kill that selfishness and greed and lust within.
Mom, dad: you can’t really spare your child from that battle!
All you can do is help him or her face it and pass through it safely.
See how our parents show us God?
This is what God does: he says, you don’t have to face your cross alone!
So, here we are at the Mass, at the Cross;
and we dragged our own cross here!
Speaking for myself, I am embarrassed by the pitiful “cross”
I complain about, as I contemplate what Jesus took up.
And here Jesus says – and we hear him say it:
“This is my Body, given for you! This is my blood, shed for you!”
