Notice what’s going on in the readings…
Saint Peter told us that God is building a very special house:
you and I are “living stones.”
Then, notice Jesus also mentions a house:
the Father’s House, and it has lots of rooms.
And Jesus also told us that the way to get there is he, himself.
He’s the heavenly GPS.
But then notice, with all that hopeful talk, there is a problem.
We heard it in the first reading.
Prejudice and division among the first Christians:
“We! They! They’re different; we don’t like them! It’s unfair!”
Then and now, this “us-versus-them” behavior creates real wounds.
But the Holy Spirit wasn’t daunted and worked through the Apostles.
He works through you and me, too, in looking past differences.
Still: if the business of turning people into saints,
and making this world the Paradise God wants it to be, were easy,
then the job would have been finished a long, long time ago!
So, for example, maybe Jesus wouldn’t have created the sacraments;
he could have just sent us a membership card.
But he didn’t do that.
And notice, while we only get baptized once,
we don’t only go to confession once;
we don’t take part in Mass only once, and receive the Eucharist once;
at least, that’s not how it is meant to work.
He knew we’d need a lot more than that.
Today some of our children will have their First Holy Communion.
But I want to explain something you may not realize.
In reality, you have already had a kind of communion.
“Communion” is actually a simple word that means “union with.”
The perfect, fullest communion is God himself:
Father, Son and Holy Spirit. They are totally, completely one.
The communion God wants us to enjoy with him began in baptism.
The Eucharist is God’s plan for sustaining and deepening that union.
“Communion” isn’t just a special event on a calendar.
If that union with God were a simple thing, it would be like,
“I’m taking a shower, presto-chango, yay, now I’m a saint!”
But instead, it’s a journey. The seed of faith is planted and grows.
Baptism, confirmation, frequent confession, Sunday Mass,
Our family, our friends, we pray together, we help each other…
And little by little, God changes us from chunky blocks
with sharp edges that can’t fit together – “ouch!”
To well-shaped stones that fit; that cooperate.
And the mortar that holds it all together is love.
I don’t just mean the feeling.
Love is a choice, a series of choices that don’t always feel good.
Boys and girls, your parents get up every day,
usually earlier than they want to.
They work hard to make a home and provide what you need.
There are a lot of things our parents would love to have
but what the family needs comes first.
When my mom did the laundry, or my dad paid the bills,
They didn’t feel exactly “good.”
But those – and a million other choices my parents,
and your parents make – equals love.
It’s hard to become truly loving and truly generous.
And notice, Peter didn’t call us marshmallows, which are soft!
He called us “stones.” They’re hard!
It takes a lot of hammer blows and patience to reshape that stone.
That’s why it’s essential to be living stones,
letting the Holy Spirit soften us up and help us want to change.
So maybe now we can understand better why Jesus did what he did.
He didn’t just send you and me a card;
he didn’t just say, “here are the instructions.”
No. God himself came to us, as one of us.
He said, I’m going to lay down my life for you – and he died!
That’s not love-talk, that’s love-action. The fullest possible.
And now, in the Mass, and the Eucharist,
he continues to lay down his life for you and me.
When we receive the Holy Eucharist, we draw life from his life.
Just as the Holy Spirit reshaped the early Christians,
He wants to transform you and me.
Day by day, Communion by Communion.